A Silly Challenge and Some Outdoor Time

Happy Friday, my friends!

I've been on a bit of a writing break, but not for lack of thoughts or things to say. Just feeling a little more contemplative lately. Sometimes it feels like the daily life won't hold much interest, although I do enjoy seeing what everyone else is doing. But nevertheless, here I am, sharing what I've been up to lately.

 

I started out this week determining to not be "the checker." The checker is one who is always checking on others - friends and family - to see how they're doing, make sure all is well, and basically just ask if everything is ok with them. 

Do you ever feel like you're always the friend who checks in? Or maybe it's family that feels too busy for you or maybe even just neglectful. Regardless, 99% of the time, I take my job as the checker very seriously 😅 But every now and then I wake up and it's the 1% day when I don't want to be the one doing the checking. That's what happened on Monday morning. 

So I set out to not check on anyone that day. I even wrote about it in my journal, just to challenge myself to stick with the plan. For how long? Not sure, but at least for that day. But guess what? Half way through the day, I realized I had not heard from my mom (who lives 5 hours away) about something I asked her the day before. The later it got, the more concerned I became and so into the evening, I decided to check on her. After all, I would hate to carry out this silly challenge only to find out that something was wrong. 

Well guess what? She was fine! She just got busy and forgot about the text from the day before and all was well. Except it wasn't! I had failed at my self-imposed challenge! I guess I would have to start over the next day. 

Except the next day, Morgan texted me a sweet text and then I got a text from a friend needing some advice and then a friend sent me something on social media and that's when I realized, I'm not the only checker in my circle. It may look different in the way we show up, but it doesn't matter, as long as you're on someone's mind. 

The more I thought about this silly challenge, I realized that I will never not be a checker. First off, I'm a mom and moms check on their people (or at least they should). And secondly, it's just how I love and who I am. I check. I text, call, maybe even bother. Who knows? But here's what I know...anyone who gets checked on by me, knows I care and that I'm genuinely interested in their life. I can't help it. It's just who I am. 

And just this morning I got a sweet email from one of you, noticing that I've been a little absent lately. And that touched my heart more than you know. (Talking to you Billie Jo 💛).

So tell me...are you the checker or the checked on? Just curious 😉

Now...moving on...

It's been so hot and muggy here lately and I've been of the mindset: don't go outside if you don't have to! But this morning it was almost bearable; dare I say...nice for a moment. So I made myself a bug-proof cup of coffee, grabbed my Bible, journal and my current devotional and headed out into the sunshine. And so typical of how the Lord likes to show up, when I opened to the next page in my devotional, the topic was getting outside and walking with the Lord. Specifically how being outside is much more conducive to prayer and fellowship with God, than the stuffy confines of rules and religion. And to that I say...Amen!

There's something about being outdoors that frees the mind to think and pray, unlike any other atmosphere. Whether it's an early morning walk or working in your garden first thing. I used to love watering the flower beds early in the morning. It felt so peaceful. Or maybe your time is in the evenings, walking with the family or sitting on the porch as the sun goes down. It all counts.

Whatever your favorite time is outside, we should do it more often. Of course, it helps when it's not 90 degrees at 7:00 am, but we can't have everything, can we?😅

I hope you all have had a great week. I've been visiting most of you and will make the rounds again tomorrow morning. In the meantime, keep checking on your people. Or you could take the challenge and see how long you last 😅 But it's a lot more fun just checking on people. I should know 😉

Until Next Time...

Blessings! 

Happy Monday - And a Little Back Story

 Happy Monday, My Friends!

I hope you had a great weekend!

Our weekend started off with a visit from my sister, brother-in-law and nephew, as they were on their way home from Florida to Boerne. They stopped by Friday afternoon and we had a nice dinner at one of our favorite restaurants in town before they got back on the road for home. It's always so fun catching up with my sisters. There's always lots of laughter involved, which is good for the soul 😊

Saturday was a slow day around here, which was really nice. I worked on some office work, David mowed the grass, I organized some kitchen cabinets and then we sat down to a nice dinner of chicken and vegetables, followed by dessert. 

Sunday brought lots of rain, but we managed to take a little drive that afternoon and then enjoy the rest of the day puttering around the house. 

I made a pot of chicken noodle soup and garlic bread for dinner, which was delicious. We had a friend stop by for a few minutes and we had a nice visit with her, then we settled in for an evening of the old classic Hawaii Five-O, so David could analyze every single car that appeared on the screen. Do you have a husband that does that? It's the old tv station habit that he can't break. He sees all the bloopers, mishaps, and the fact that in one scene they were driving a 2-door and in the next scene it's a 4-door. It drives me crazy because I'm trying to just enjoy the show and he's constantly playing tv editor 😬 But, oh well.

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This week is going to be a rainy one, with a storm brewing down south of us. I think it's predicted to rain every day until Thursday. This isn't really out of the norm here, so we aren't surprised. But by Friday I'll be in desperate need of some sunshine. 

I'm actually looking forward to being home and working around the house. I'm hoping to knock some things off my on-going-to-do-list, read a few books and organize a few more spaces. I'm sure there will be cooking involved, as well as the usual - cleaning and laundry. Such is life on the homefront and I love it all. 

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I want to thank you all for helping me with the FOLLOW numbers! I was so happy to move off of that annoying number and watch it land elsewhere. Your indulgence was appreciated 😀

Also, thank you for the sweet comments on Sunday's post - The Gathering. The back story to that piece is this...

It was the Christmas season and some sweet friends volunteered to host a party for David's office staff and volunteers. As we all gathered in their home, it was beautifully decorated with all of her Christmas collection from many years. We mingled and talked and then it was time to eat. Everyone was seated around the dining room, living room and kitchen; talking and just being themselves. That night, David wasn't the "boss" and they weren't employees. Everyone was just friends, sharing a meal. 

After we ate, we were given a tour of their home, where we were delighted to view their family photos on the walls. This is when we were commenting on their clothing and shoes from days gone by, as I wrote in the story. 

It was a lovely evening full of laughter and joy and made such an impression on me that I had to write about it. 

After the book was published, I gave a copy of it, along with a framed copy of that story, to our friend who had hosted the gathering. She was delighted and touched and I'm sure it hangs in her home to this day. 

And now you know the rest of the story 😊

Well, it's time to take the last sips of my morning coffee and start my day. I wish you a great one and hope you have lots of everything you need today.

Until Next Time...

Blessings! 

Sunday Stories - The Gathering

 

The Gathering

One by one, they come in the door.

Greetings and hugs, hellos and welcomes… 

“I’ll take that dish and put your coat there”, echo into the entryway.

Old friends reunite and new ones shake hands - 

it’s the gathering of the old and new - 

all together, under one roof.

Some sit quietly, taking in the sounds.  

Others chatter away endlessly, 

like they still have thousands of words to use up 

before night’s end.

The blessing is asked, 

plates passed and the bravest one goes first.

Homemade dishes, festive treats - 

it’s the holiday of all holidays 

and all diets are off limits this night.

Some at tables and some in chairs - 

plates are full and conversations flowing.

“Who wants coffee?” says the host, 

and mugs are filled with yummy, hot comfort.

Sugar and cream, plain and black - 

all the differences in their cups.

The gathering is the same - 

all the differences in each face.

Retired, still working, homemaker and boss.

But tonight, just friends, 

laughing and swapping stories.

“How many years have y’all been married?”  

Forty-two?  Oh, they have you beat by one year!”

“Come see this picture!”  

“Look at those shoes!”

And just like that - the house is filled with people 

sharing life and it’s a beautiful event.

The gathering was made for people 

and the people were made to gather.

And all went home, and life felt good.

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I hope you enjoyed this excerpt from my book

Notes from a Writer's Heart

You can find this book and others

on the sidebar of the blog.

Until Next Time...

Blessings!

I Need a Favor!

 Happy Friday, my friends!

Today I'm coming to you with a favor. I'm not one to campaign for myself or advertise my blog or anything that would make me seem like a salesperson. 

But there is one thing here that's driving me crazy and I need your help😅

It's the darn FOLLOW button on the sidebar! I have it there for people who want to show up here weekly and read my words and stories. But for the longest time, it continues to vacillate between 68-69- back to 68 (who left?) and back again and it's driving me nuts! 

If you are a regular reader here and you plan on coming back, would you PLEASE click the follow button and hopefully get me over the 68/69 hump? Call it an obsession or whatever, but I need to move past this number for some reason 😂

Thank you in the biggest way!

And to the one who keeps leaving...sorry you weren't feeling it here. But hopefully you'll come back 😀

Have a great Friday, everyone!

And may you never get stuck on a number that never moves (especially in an elevator!). 

Until Next Time...

Blessings! 

Just Some Ramblings For This Week

 Happy Thursday, my friends!

I hope you've had a great week and are staying cool in this scorching heat (at least here in Texas). 

I have been here and there this week, but mostly here.

Monday I worked on my To-Do list, trying to knock some things out. I did manage to order David's Father's Day gift, and I made this funky flower pot for a friend of mine.

My friend just moved into a new house and she asked me to come give her some decorating advice. So I painted this flower pot, added some goodies to it and two CFA cards for her 16 year old twins and took it to her yesterday. We went shopping for a new couch, then did our favorite thing...ate Mexican food together and talked until we just had to go. 

Last week when the girls were here, I made this for myself. I used a napkin and ModPodge for the outside, some fabric for the inside and glued the pompoms on. Very simple, but it added a bit of patriotism to the table. 

Every time I get out the paints - even just the watercolors - I'm reminded of how much I enjoy painting. I should do it more often. 

Yesterday I took pictures of my plants on the front porch. Let's just say...they're thriving! This is a welcomed surprise for me, as I'm not usually known for growing plants successfully. I don't have a green thumb, at all. 

Now, complete honesty - they were healthy when we bought them, so I can't take all the credit, but I haven't killed them yet, so there's that 😅🌿

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This week has been an interesting one, as I have had lots on my mind, but haven't felt like writing about any of it until today, I guess. 

Things I've had on my mind this week...

How to live a slower life, when there are so many things to constantly take care of. 

It's made me think of all the "slow living" scenes you see on social media and how those people leave out the real life facts that bills still have to be paid, the toilets cleaned, dinner cooked, fires to put out with insurance or the cable company. You know...real life, not Instagram life. 

Then I think that there are seasons of life that are more conducive to living slower, such as...well...who knows? 

And then I guess it depends on your definition of slow living and what your expectations are of it. 

And then maybe it comes down to personality type. 

So many things to wonder about.

I've also been thinking about...

Plans and dreams for the future.

When I turned 60, it turned a page in my mind about life and how many years are out front now, as opposed to what I left behind. I have dreams and visions about what I want those future years to look like. I admire people who dream it and then go make it happen. I want to be those people 😊

But my dreams and visions would take God-sized miracles, so I'm praying and asking and believing and that's where I'm at right now. 

On a lighter note...

Today is Millie Day and I'm sure there will be libraries involved 😅📚 Other than that, I've decided to wing it today - for activities, lunch, everything. We're just going to hang out and see what we can get into. Believe me, these girls don't lack ideas, so they will have me tied up in something by this afternoon, I'm sure. 😅

Well, that's all the rambling I'm going to do for today. See? This is why I was reluctant to write this week. Lots to think about, but not always explainable. 

I hope today is full of whatever kind of living you enjoy - slow, busy, productive or not - enjoy it anyway. It's the one God gave you 😌

Until Next Time...

Blessings! 

Sunday Stories - How to Enjoy Silence

How to Enjoy Silence

To turn off the noise, 

we must be ok with our own thoughts.

To be ok with our own thoughts, 

we must think on things worthy of our time.

To think on things worthy of our time, 

we must be in active pursuit of good things.

To be in active pursuit of good things, 

we must crave good and not evil.

To crave good and not evil, 

we must know Jesus as a friend.

To know Jesus as a friend, 

we must believe that he gave his life 

to give us eternity with Him.

To believe that Jesus gave his life so that we could live, 

is to acknowledge that we need a savior.

To acknowledge that we need a savior, 

is to admit we can’t get to Heaven on our own.

To admit we can’t get there on our own, 

is to admit that we are not in control.

To admit we’re not in control, 

is to admit we need God to come alongside us 

and take the wheel.

To let God take the wheel in our lives 

is to trust Him.

To trust Him 

is to love Him.

To love Him 

is the first step to loving others.

To love others 

is to pursue good things.

To pursue good things 

is surely the way to having good thoughts, and….

having good thoughts 

is the only way to enjoy silence.

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I hope you enjoyed this excerpt from my book

Notes from a Writer's Heart

You can find this and my other books on the

sidebar of the blog.

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Thank you for coming by today.

I hope you have a great Sunday!

Until Next Time...

Blessings!