Hello Friends!
Am I the only one who feels that January is moving along so quickly? It's already the 7th! Wow!
Anyway, I've had this topic on my mind, since hearing someone mention it recently and I think it's worth sharing here in case anyone is feeling the same way.
It's about decision fatigue.
Ever hear of it?
Well, I've been feeling it lately!
Decision fatigue is pretty self-explanatory. It's the absolute weariness that comes from
having to make constant decisions about various things.
For instance, shopping for Christmas for a big family.
This can be so taxing, to keep track of the budget, what you've bought, what still needs to be
purchased, what to wrap, etc.
Whew! Thank goodness that's over!
But add that to getting ready to move, deciding what type of flooring, what color paint,
where to put everything, when to pack, when to move, when to turn on and off utilities,
change addresses on bills and so many other things that go along with moving,
I've hit a wall several times.
So when I recently heard someone talk about ways to deal with decision fatigue,
I perked up and took notice and it got me thinking about all the ways
to relieve yourself of having to make decisions over and over again.
The example I heard was pertaining to what color to paint your nails.
Now that is obviously a frivolous endeavor, but if you go to a salon,
you know the first thing they tell you to do is choose a color.
So the example is to make a decision ahead of time, such as wearing red nail color
all winter long. Boom. Decision done. Now when you go to the salon
you don't have to wonder what to do. Just choose a red and get going.
The same can be done with weekly lunches or a weekly menu.
Back in the day, women didn't search Pinterest for a new set of meals each week.
They had set meals for certain days of the week. For instance,
my mom has told me that my grandmother always fixed pork chops and baked potatoes
on Thursdays.
Many grandmothers fixed a pot roast on Sundays.
These are decisions you can make once, and use over and over and never have
to reinvent the wheel.
You know what meal comes on what day and you shop accordingly.
This would also eliminate having to create a new list of groceries each week.
Capsule wardrobes or even the "uniform" trend that's been
popular over the years is a good example of how
women have tried to cut down on the decision of what to wear.
If you aren't familiar with these,
a capsule wardrobe is one that has a certain number of
mix and match items and no matter what you choose
to wear that day, your items will coordinate.
The uniform trend has taken off over the years and it consists of
a certain bottom, certain top, maybe a jacket
and you have multiple copies of the same item and that's what you wear every day.
So for instance, you have 5 pair of black slacks, 5 white shirts and 1 pair of black
loafers and each day the decision of what to wear is eliminated.
When David and I were choosing ceiling fans for our renovation,
we chose the same fan for multiple rooms.
Why not?
I've never gone to anyone's house and taken notices of their ceiling fans.
Keep it simple!
I'm sure there are so many categories you can apply this to,
so I'm curious as to what you've done in your life to make
one less decision during the week.
Inquiring minds want to know!
Until Next Time...
Blessings!

This was a very good topic. I think we all go through this.
ReplyDeleteI am nearly 80 years old and still struggle with this! I love the idea of the meal plan. There are too many choices in the grocery store now, too. Have you ever stood and stared at a shelf with 150 kinds of cereal for your visiting grandchildren? (and still, sometimes, get the "wrong" thing?)
I truly want to go back to basics in the food department. One thing on my to-do list is to revisit my recipe box and old cookbooks.
Happy January 7th! I am looking forward to following your journey with the reclaiming of your "new"/old home.
Jane in FL
Jane, we are all a work in progress, aren't we? I'm so glad you visited the blog today! I look forward to getting to know you :)
DeleteDecision fatigue is real! I love the idea of keeping things simple, though. I did this last summer when having my home repainted; I chose the same color for every room. I love the idea of choosing the same ceiling fans for that reason. I don't ever notice that in homes, either! I think it's great to do as many things as we possibly can to keep things easy for us. I'm excited to hear more about your home! I can't wait to see pics. Have a great day, my friend! xoxo
ReplyDeleteJenn, that's what we did with paint too. It's so much easier to have a simple palette and then add color with decor. And you're right...the more things we can simplify, the easier our day-to-day will be.
DeleteGrinning...yes ma'am...and this is how I tackle lesson planning, what to wear etc. I own 3 pairs of black dress pants, various tops/blouses for my job and voila. Excellent post my friend. Have a great day, smiles.
ReplyDeleteI love that, Linda! I've tried a simple wardrobe before, but never perfected it. I would love to do this too.
DeleteVery interesting! Prior to retiring, I was a nurse and we wore scrubs. Each department had a different color and the charge nurses had to wear navy. Perfect! No decision needed and that was nice. I don't know if I could make the same food weekly though, I enjoy trying new things. :)
ReplyDeleteMaking all the decisions for a house would be overwhelming. Good plan with the fans!
What a timely topic, Debbie! I do this with chores (laundry, cleaning, vacuuming, etc.), clothes, and do some extent, my stitching and reading. Have a wonderful Wednesday!
ReplyDeleteI always feel like January is the slowest month of the year but considering it's already the 7th I guess it's moving along. My mother used to say the older we get the faster time feels and that sure is the truth, although my kids have been feeling it too. Decision fatigue is real, for sure, and I am a very indecisive person so that does not ever help with anything.
ReplyDeleteI think this is such a great way to look at things that feel overwhelming in decision making. I bet there are so many ways in which to apply it! As we are working on changing to some healthier habits over here I like the idea of applying that to many areas - be it certain exercising on certain days...and the set meal ideas to some degree. Wishing you many blessings for easier days ahead with your decisions my dear Friend! 💗
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